I think she hates me...?

I know how you feel, I got home on Wednesday from Austin and my daughter had been with my mom, when I got her she said, I don't want to go with you I only want grandma. Ouch! I had been gone 5 days, my son was at least happy to see me, she is miss independent(at 4 years old) and sometimes it hurts my feelings to know she wants someone else(not me) I don't think it's personal, I think kids get used to us(moms) and take us for granted, even at 4 months... just my thoughts though