It's about my my feonsay.?

My feonsay weighs 268 bl's and would like to to get down to to Ideal weight which is abou 129 lb by what my human body book says and the book is from this year from a liybrary sale and it is publishished by doctors but the only poblem is that she is still drinking mountain due and the doctor told her her to stop all with the dentist and I am afraid that if she dosen't lose the weight and she keeps on gainning it that she will become ob bessed and I not be able to have kids at all at haveing kids is what she whats to have right now so we we are trying for one But with her just getting off of the depo shot 3 moths ago I think that we have to waight 3 months for to start haveing her period again which wont be until Febuary of next year and she wants me me to move out of moms house right now but I can't do that because the guy that murdered my little brother Raymond in August 4th of this year his friends are putting death treats on my mom and I want to stay close to her in case anything happens but Norma wants to move into a big town like waterloo or Cedar Falls Iowa and right now I don't have a car because of my epilepsy and I can't get my license or renew my permit or get a car until next year in January. What should I do.Anyone with tips or advice on the sittuation it would be very much apecated.